Tantra proposes that sex is one of the privileged paths available to us to experience union with the divine. By separating orgasm from mere ejaculation as distinct experiences, tantra invites us to extend moments of sexual ecstasy for much longer periods, teaching us to mobilize the body’s internal energies to achieve true cosmic orgasms. In tantric sex, there are no expectations regarding the ‘results’ of intercourse: only the present moment of perfect and harmonious union matters. Tantric sexuality is meditative, spontaneous, and intimate: it seeks to project the energy of orgasm not toward dissipation, but toward the expansion of consciousness. This shifts sexuality from the realm of doing to that of being, teaching us to revere our partner and transform the sexual act into a sacrament of love.

From a Tantric perspective, most men don’t experience orgasm because they confuse it with ejaculation. And this isn’t just a male problem: many women encourage their partners to ejaculate, and the more often the better, because they consider it a sign of their partners’ virility and their own power to please them. Tantra, on the other hand, proposes reaching the peak of arousal and maintaining it for an unlimited time: if a man is able to overcome the barrier where the nervous spasm produces ejaculation, he will be able to experience true orgasm—that is, the cosmic, absolute orgasm.

Erotic Massage:

In a couples massage, the woman usually goes to the massage table first, followed by the man. They cover their eyes with a blindfold and their bodies with a white sheet, which is gradually unveiled.

The session begins with a relaxing oil massage over the entire naked body of the man or woman. Once the body is relaxed, the erotic massage begins. Ana’s hands start to give warm, long caresses all over the body. Afterward, Ana invites the other partner to join in for a four-handed massage.
Then, using fruit, ice, and water, various techniques are explored, so that the blend of aromas and sensations culminates in a long and pleasurable orgasm.
The goal is to heighten desire so that the couple, according to Tantra, can achieve a “Cosmic orgasm.” This type of massage is performed on the entire body; Ana’s hands will glide over every part of the body.